I'm not lying when I said I thought about it all day, that I started asking other people on their opinion. I thought that i would absolutely find that most people would be confused on which one to pick, and I was right. But what puzzled me was the certainty of some people, how they right away shook their head and were so sure of their answer. This happened for both, some so sure of the nature option and some sure of the nurture option.
I took a look at the other blogs and i also found the same thing. The responses were cut up. Some saying "you can't cheat nature" and others explaining how it depends on what the individual feels as they grow up. It amazes me how people have so much to say on this idea of nature verses nurture, and i still can't seem to chose.
People's opinions can be hard to change and if science seems unsure or still haven't found an answer, seems like we have basically no proof to back up our answers. Seems like we can only put our self's in the shoes of an individual in that situation and wonder how confusing it would be. Nature can't be cheated.? or follow our minds and hearts.? who knows.